Three Online Relationship Slip ~~~ Ups To Steer Clear Of
There is a big difference between being aggressive or confident and being too aggressive,over confident, or just plain sleazy or slimy from a woman's point of view. If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you will come across as too aggressive maybe even, scary. Try to remember that you are not trying to close a business deal and keep the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. You can never underestimate the importance of being patient.
Nobody is perfect. Everybody has some things that are less that perfect, that includes you and me as well. Expecting perfection in another person is going to get your heart broken in a hurry, as it simply does not exist. Demanding perfectionism in your work is one thing. Demanding perfection from social relationships will certainly lead to heartache and misery. You'll be waiting a long time. Understand that imperfection is the spice of life and learn
to deal with it. Just choose what is acceptable and what is not.
Telling small lies that may be otherwise acceptable simply won't pass muster here, mister. Be honest from the beginning of a relationship. Compose your online profile. Spice it up a bit, but don't but any lies or falsehoods in there. The truth always has a way of coming out in the end. If you promise something fantastic, but can't deliver, then you are going to be sorry in the long run, and your heart will be broken into a million pieces.
Remember ~~~ don't be too aggressive, expect to ever find perfection or put on a false front.
While you search the Internet for that special lady...the one of your dreams...your soul mate the other half of yourself, you can do a lot of things right. And naturally, you can also fail miserably in other areas, and virtually guarantee that you won't find what you are looking for. Out in the "real" world,being aggressive, demanding perfection and even little white lies are all ingredients for success. However, those same qualities are killers when you are dating online and off line, too, for that matter.
There is a big difference between being aggressive or confident and being too aggressive,over confident, or just plain sleazy or slimy from a woman's point of view. If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you will come across as too aggressive maybe even, scary. Try to remember that you are not trying to close a business deal and keep the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. You can never underestimate the importance of being patient.
Nobody is perfect. Everybody has some things that are less that perfect, that includes you and me as well. Expecting perfection in another person is going to get your heart broken in a hurry, as it simply does not exist. Demanding perfectionism in your work is one thing. Demanding perfection from social relationships will certainly lead to heartache and misery. You'll be waiting a long time. Understand that imperfection is the spice of life and learn
to deal with it. Just choose what is acceptable and what is not.
Telling small lies that may be otherwise acceptable simply won't pass muster here, mister. Be honest from the beginning of a relationship. Compose your online profile. Spice it up a bit, but don't but any lies or falsehoods in there. The truth always has a way of coming out in the end. If you promise something fantastic, but can't deliver, then you are going to be sorry in the long run, and your heart will be broken into a million pieces.
Remember ~~~ don't be too aggressive, expect to ever find perfection or put on a false front.